First Look Before the Aisle: Why More Couples Are Choosing This Moment

I’ve seen a lot of incredible moments at weddings. But there’s one that always sticks with me—the First Look. It’s quiet. It’s emotional. It’s just the two of you, seeing each other for the first time without 100 pairs of eyes watching. And every single time I photograph it, I’m reminded why I love this job so much.

Let me tell you why the First Look might just be the most unforgettable part of your day.

It’s a Pause in the Chaos

Wedding days move fast. From getting ready to the last dance, you’re surrounded by people, schedules, emotions, and energy. The First Look gives you a rare, private pause before everything really begins. It’s often the only moment all day where it’s just the two of you—no guests, no timeline pressure, no audience. Just you, taking a deep breath together.

Real Emotions, Undistracted

One of the biggest myths is that a First Look somehow takes away from the ceremony moment. In my experience? It adds to it. The First Look is where you can let your guard down. You can cry, laugh, hold each other—without rushing on to the next thing. And later, when you meet again at the altar, it’s just as powerful. Sometimes even more so.

It Opens Up Your Timeline (and Gives You More Photos)

From a timeline standpoint, First Looks are ideal. We can capture your couple portraits, wedding party shots, and sometimes even family photos before the ceremony. That means you’ll have more time after to actually enjoy your cocktail hour—and be with your people, not stuck taking photos. Win-win.

And let’s be honest: the light earlier in the day? Usually chef’s kiss.

You Get to Be Fully Present

I’ve watched couples go from anxious to grounded in just a few seconds during a First Look. That moment of connection resets everything. It reminds you what this day is really about. And as your photographer, I love capturing that shift—that visible exhale when you realize, “Okay… we’re doing this. Together.”

But It’s Not for Everyone—and That’s Okay

Some couples dream of that emotional moment when they see each other for the first time at the ceremony—and that’s absolutely beautiful. The First Look isn’t a rule. It’s not a “must.” It’s simply an option—one that’s worth considering for what it gives you.

And no, I’m not just saying that as a photographer (though yes, the photos are always stunning). I’m saying it as someone who’s seen the way this moment unfolds in real life, time and time again.

Here’s the truth: you’re not giving up the ceremony moment—you’re actually getting it twice.

That dramatic, emotional walk down the aisle? Still there. Still powerful. Still unforgettable.
But with a First Look, you also get a private moment before all eyes are on you. Just the two of you. No pressure. No timeline. No crowd.

It’s this rare little pause in the day where everything slows down. You get to see each other, talk, hug, cry, laugh, breathe. The nerves soften. The excitement settles in. And it often becomes one of the most emotionally grounding parts of the day.

Honestly? It’s like double-dipping into the magic.

If you're on the fence, I always say: at least think about it. Talk it through together. There’s no wrong choice—only what feels right for you. But know that the First Look isn’t about “ruining” the aisle moment. It’s about adding to your experience and carving out space for the two of you in a day that goes by way too fast.

And whatever you choose—we’ll be there to capture it all.

Final Thoughts From Behind the Camera

I’ve photographed couples who laugh through their First Look, who whisper private vows, who cry the second they turn around. Every time, it’s magic. Every time, it’s yours.

If you’re curious about how a First Look could fit into your timeline or what it might look like in your photos, let’s chat. I’d love to help you create space for a moment you’ll never forget.